GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women, Christian Singles

Do you feel heartbroken over a recent breakup? Did you think he was “the one”, but it turned out to be another failed relationship? Are you feeling like you’ll never find “the one” for you? Do you wish God would just bring the right man along so you can be happy? In this podcast I will share my journey of looking for love in all the wrong places to finally finding the true love I needed and how that led to me getting into the right position to be married. I had a lot of work to do in my single season. When I finally put God first in my life and truly gave Him my heart, I became content as a single woman. Then, and only then was I ready for marriage. I will share all my tips and insight on healing and moving on after painful breakups, growing close to God during heartbreak, and how to get into position to have the deepest desires of your heart (i.e., marriage, children, etc.). If you’re ready to ditch that broken heart for healing and wholeness, you’re in the right place. Hey Sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother of 3. I’m carrying out the call God placed on my life by helping women heal and move forward after breakups. While I love my life now, this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I had a broken heart and was unfulfilled with my life. The cycle of failed relationships began to make me have thoughts like, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not enough?” I desperately wanted to find the right man for me and get married. So I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Then, in 2015, my heart was shattered, and I knew something had to change. I finally realized that if I was ever going to truly heal my heart and be fulfilled, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. Through healing and connection with God, I finally felt whole and complete. I learned the proper way to heal and grow my relationship with God, and I want to help you do the same. Plus I have tips to help you get ready for future relationships, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be complete and lacking nothing. If you are ready to finally heal your heart, stop going from failed relationship to failed relationship, and grow your relationship with God in the midst of it, all while becoming the woman you want to be who is ready when the right man comes along–this is definitely the podcast for you. Sis, kick off those cute shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day and turn me up in those earbuds, we’re about to get into it! Links Connect: contact@kandiceabateast.com IG: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/427484885847810/ Book: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/shop Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose

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Tuesday Aug 02, 2022

Hey Sis,
Today’s episode is a little different. I hope you don’t mind.
In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s hard to slow down and take care of ourselves. Everyone needs something from us. They are depending on us. The world wants us to show up for them, but what about us?
God is dealing with me in this season to make sure I take time to fill my cup. I am constantly pouring out to others, so my cup has to always be filled. While He was dealing with me one night, I felt Holy Spirit nudging me to go record.
This episode is just one of encouragement, reminding you that you alone are enough! We can’t get caught up in the performance trap. We don’t have to perform for God. He wants you to know He loves you just the way you are.
Even in this season of heartbreak, you are enough! And especially in this season of heartbreak, He wants you to take a moment to sit at his feet and connect with Him. 
Take a real moment for yourself when you listen to this episode. Really listen to my words. Soak in it! 
And don’t worry! I’ll make sure you get a bonus episode this week to even things out 😉
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to show your support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
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Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!

Tuesday Jul 26, 2022

Hey Sis!
How long have you been dealing with heartbreak? Days, weeks, months, years, decades? You know what, Sis, it doesn’t even matter. You know why? Because you’re getting set free and healed today! That’s right, TODAY!
The enemy will no longer plague your mind and keep you in this broken hearted state! In today’s episode, we are going to dissect a very familiar passage of scripture to show you how you can use your faith to take hold of the healing that is rightfully yours.
We are going to talk about the woman with the issue of blood found in Mark 5:25-34. This woman is a prime example of what happens when you look to the world to heal you, but the world cannot. She stayed stuck in her situation for over a decade, but then she heard Jesus was passing by.
Sis, we don’t have to wait to be healed. Our healing is already within us. We just have to activate our faith in order to access the healing, which I will teach you how to do today.
This episode is a must listen and must share episode. No matter how long you’ve been on your healing journey, it’s time to get your healing today! Some of you have been dealing with this for way too long, and it’s time to be set free!
Are you with me? If so, turn me up in those earbuds! This is going to be good!
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to show your support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
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Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!
 

Tuesday Jul 19, 2022

Hey Sis!
We have talked about this before. Making the decision to leave a relationship is one of the hardest things in life. There's all of these thoughts, “but I love him,” “but I don’t want to be alone,” “but if not him, then who?” These thoughts keep us frozen in fear, staying in relationships way past our time.
I have already shared with you in a previous episode how God told me to leave one relationship (check out episode #8). Today, I’m going to tell you how God told me to leave 4 different relationships in 4 different ways. You heard me right.
God was speaking to me even when I didn’t know it was Him, and I’m going to share it all with you today. Could it be that God is speaking to you too? He speaks to all of us differently, so we have to be open to hearing Him.
Come learn the ways God spoke to me and if you resonate with any of these. This is probably the most uncomfortable episode I’ve done so far, but so worth it. I think it’s truly going to shed some light on your situation, whether you’re seeking God about leaving a relationship or anything else in your life. Plus you’ll be hearing a little tea about my previous relationships.
So turn me up in those earbuds because I'm more than sure that you won’t want to miss this episode! 
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to show your support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
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Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!

Tuesday Jul 12, 2022

Hey sis!
I have a special treat for you today! I want to welcome our first guest to the podcast, my lil sista from another mista–Pastor Jessika Rae Gayden! This episode is so good and refreshing, and it is for you whether or not you are dealing with heartbreak.
Pastor Jessika is a worship Pastor at our church, a nurse, a Mary Kay consultant, and the founder of Lover of Jesus Apparel. Her biggest desire in life is to know Him (Jesus) and to make Him known ❤️!
This is such a special episode where we do a deep dive into worship. We are talking about what worship really is and how to live a life of worship. Plus, we are talking about how to worship through heartbreak and the benefits of it.
Seriously, you’re going to think about some things differently after hearing this episode, especially if you’re one of those people who believe worship is not for you. 
Not to mention, my sis and I kind of cut up a little bit, so you’ll be able to get a few giggles and hehe’s in this episode. This is definitely one you want to tune into!
Connect with Pastor Jessika today @ www.JessikaRae.com 
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
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Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!

Tuesday Jul 05, 2022

Hey sis!
So, I don’t know if you know this, but obedience is really important on the healing journey. Maybe that’s not what you were ever expecting to hear, but it’s true. If you really want to be healed from this heartbreak, you have to be willing to do what it is God is telling you to do.
We always want to be aligned with God’s purpose for our lives, and sometimes that alignment is going to take us being obedient to God in a big way. Here’s the things. The things God tells us to do are not always what our flesh wants to do. That’s what I’m going to share with you in today’s episode.
God called on me to make a huge sacrifice in my life that ultimately lead to a season that seemed counterproductive to what I wanted. It seemed like I was going backwards in life; but in fact, everything was falling into place, just as God had designed it to. 
Has God given you instructions that you have yet to follow through with? If so, today is definitely for you. Maybe you’re not sure what God wants you to do right now. That’s okay! I got you too! Just hit play. 
I’m going to share with you more of my story, how God told me to leave that relationship, a and what happened as a result. Talk about juicy! This is definitely an episode you won’t want to miss. And quick, share it with someone else who you know needs to hear this today!
Also Sis, if you haven’t subscribed to the podcast yet, do us both a favor and hit that subscribe/follow button wherever you get your podcast. I’m telling you, you don’t want to miss any of these episodes. 
When this episode is over, I would love to know your thoughts! Head over to my Facebook group so we can connect!
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Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!
 

Tuesday Jun 28, 2022

Hey sis,
Listen, I know this heartbreak thing is hard, but we’re going to get through this! Today’s episode is all about giving you your power back. We are going to shatter this myth that you need closure to move on after this breakup.
First, let me say that I know all about this feeling of needing closure, but I learned that really is just an illusion. In a not so subtle way, God made it clear to me that it’s definitely not needed. I learned so much, though, in this process because it wasn’t easy to just surrender something I felt like I truly needed. 
Today, I’m going to share a little about my experience when I felt like I needed closure but wasn’t getting it. In this episode I’m going to list all the things the need for closure robs you of, and I’m going to tell you what to do instead of seeking closure. 
You’re not going to want to miss this episode. And if you know someone else dealing with this, please share this episode and bless them! 
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
Christian Women Overcoming Heartbreak and Finding Purpose | Facebook
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!

Tuesday Jun 21, 2022

Hey Sis!
Have you been tormented by the constant back and forth about whether to truly walk away from a relationship or return to it after a breakup? We’re going to really dig into that double-minded nature today.
The enemy tries to keep us in the double-minded state because he knows we won’t receive anything from God as long as we’re in this frame of mind. The constant back and forth is robbing you of God’s blessings and keeping you stagnant. How can you ever move forward and build a complete and satisfying life when your mind is preoccupied with making this decision. 
I really want to help you move forward, Sis, and reap these 4 benefits discussed in today’s episode. The double-mindedness ends today! This is going to be a juicy one! Turn me up in those earbuds, so we can get into it!
Also, if you’re looking for some encouragement from like-minded individuals who are looking to move forward from heartbreak and walk in purpose, come join my Facebook group. The link is below
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You can also follow me on Instagram:  @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!

Monday Jun 20, 2022

Hey Yall!
Happy Juneteenth! I have a special bonus episode for you today as we celebrate our Black Independence Day, the day our ancestors were emancipated and freed from slavery. 
If you are not a black person, please don’t skip over this episode. Please listen and celebrate with us. I promise there’s no blaming or condemnation, and you’ll be able to glean from it too. My hope is that we can come together and celebrate this day as a nation. 
In today’s episode we have a very short history of how Juneteenth came to be. We have a lot of reflection on what things may have been like for our ancestors. I share that slavery was only 4 generations ago in my family and how thankful to God I am to be where I am today.
Today is about celebrating and honoring our ancestors for their endurance and their sacrifices. From this day forward, let’s live lives that honor them!
For more connections come join the Facebook group
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Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
I can’t wait to connect with you!

Tuesday Jun 14, 2022

Hey sis!
Listen, I know moving on with a broken heart is hard, and trying to find a roadmap to help you move forward can be even harder. Don’t fret chile! That’s why I’m here!
If you have that burning question of “Where do I go from here,” today’s episode is definitely for you. I map out 10 clear steps on how to move on from heartbreak. All of them are necessary and practical. 
There is no shame in taking time to grieve the loss of a relationship and the loss of the future you thought you would have; and that’s where we start in this episode. By the time you get to the end of this list, you’ll be out here practicing self-care and trying new things. 
This season on hurt and loneliness is not the season that any of us want to be in, but I’m here to help you through it so you don’t stay here. If you’re ready to start your healing journey and move on from heartbreak, turn me up in those earbuds, sis!
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Also, come over to my Facebook and connect with me and other like-minded women. Just click the link below.
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Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
 
I can’t wait to connect with you!

Tuesday Jun 07, 2022

Hey Sis!
Today’s society is obsessed with purpose, but few know where to start. The question, “What was I created to do?” lingers in the minds of many, especially the Christian community. We are going to delve into it in today’s episode.
God created us all with purpose in mind and unique callings. So, if you think you have no purpose, you’ll think differently after listening to what I have to say. We’ll talk about the distinction between purpose and calling. I’ll also help you discover the ways you’re already operating in purpose and where to go from there. 
I’ll  teach you steps to find your unique callings God placed on your life. Today’s episode is so rich with wisdom and practicality. You don’t want to miss this, so turn me up in those earbuds Sis!
Do you want more encouragement or inspiration after this? Come join me in my Facebook Group! Just click the link below.
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I can’t wait to connect with you!

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