GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women, Christian Singles
Do you feel heartbroken over a recent breakup? Did you think he was “the one”, but it turned out to be another failed relationship? Are you feeling like you’ll never find “the one” for you? Do you wish God would just bring the right man along so you can be happy? In this podcast I will share my journey of looking for love in all the wrong places to finally finding the true love I needed and how that led to me getting into the right position to be married. I had a lot of work to do in my single season. When I finally put God first in my life and truly gave Him my heart, I became content as a single woman. Then, and only then was I ready for marriage. I will share all my tips and insight on healing and moving on after painful breakups, growing close to God during heartbreak, and how to get into position to have the deepest desires of your heart (i.e., marriage, children, etc.). If you’re ready to ditch that broken heart for healing and wholeness, you’re in the right place. Hey Sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother of 3. I’m carrying out the call God placed on my life by helping women heal and move forward after breakups. While I love my life now, this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I had a broken heart and was unfulfilled with my life. The cycle of failed relationships began to make me have thoughts like, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not enough?” I desperately wanted to find the right man for me and get married. So I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Then, in 2015, my heart was shattered, and I knew something had to change. I finally realized that if I was ever going to truly heal my heart and be fulfilled, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. Through healing and connection with God, I finally felt whole and complete. I learned the proper way to heal and grow my relationship with God, and I want to help you do the same. Plus I have tips to help you get ready for future relationships, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be complete and lacking nothing. If you are ready to finally heal your heart, stop going from failed relationship to failed relationship, and grow your relationship with God in the midst of it, all while becoming the woman you want to be who is ready when the right man comes along–this is definitely the podcast for you. Sis, kick off those cute shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day and turn me up in those earbuds, we’re about to get into it! Links Connect: contact@kandiceabateast.com IG: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/427484885847810/ Book: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/shop Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose
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Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
Hey Sis!
It’s November, which means Thanksgiving dinner is right around the corner. How are you feeling about it? Do you feel like you’re ready for it since the breakup happened?
Let me tell you Sis, you can handle it, and I’m here to help equip you. I am giving you the survival tips that I wish I had for my first Thanksgiving after that major breakup.
You will be able to go to Thanksgiving dinner and enjoy it in peace! I have some good tactical things for you, so get your pen and paper and let’s dig in so you can create your plan to survive and enjoy your family and friends this Thanksgiving!
Remember, the gratitude journal challenge starts tomorrow (11/2/22). Join me every Wednesday in the month of November as I share with you the things I’m grateful for, and I’ll guide you through the exercise so you can participate as well. If you didn’t get your journal yet, go to my website www.kandiceabateast.com and order your beautiful lined journal with the promo code “JOURNAL15” for 15% off the journal. And you can still get a copy of my book Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional, with the promo code “PODCAST10” for your 10% discount.
Also, if you are going through heartbreak and would like to get some help to make some real progress in your healing journey, I am offering Heartbreak Coaching sessions now to assist you. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com, for pricing and scheduling details.
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Oct 31, 2022
Monday Oct 31, 2022
Hey Sis!
People are getting their books, and I’m getting great feedback about it! But don’t worry, I’m still showing up with more goodness from the book here on the podcast. I’m still reading excerpts every Monday in the month of October, and I will continue reading excerpts in November as well.
Today’s excerpt talks about God being with us in our impossible situations. The scripture reference is Daniel 3:25 (NIV).
I know it seems unimaginable that you will get through this season and be better for it, but I want to encourage you today. Don’t be mad at God that He did not prevent this from happening to you. He gets glory from all things, and bringing you through, then out of this heartbreaking season will not only bless you but so many others. Sis, if you allow God to join you in your impossible situation, He will definitely deliver you. And not only will He deliver you, but you won’t look like what you’ve been through. I’m a living testimony of this! Take a listen, Sis!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. And don’t forget, as a podcast listener, you can always get a 10% discount off of my products on my website by using the promo code “PODCAST10”. You can also sign up for my email list on my website as well.
Don’t forget I’m offering Self-Worth Sessions! Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com. If I still have spots available for a free session, feel free to grab one of those. If not, email me for pricing and scheduling.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Friday Oct 28, 2022
Friday Oct 28, 2022
Hey Sis!
Wow! I can’t believe we are already in the month of November! That was fast! And that means Thanksgiving is right around the corner, and this is the time of year that most people tend to be more thankful than any other time of the year. But I know you may be struggling to show gratitude this year because this breakup is crushing.
Let me help you, Sis! I do something every year called the Gratitude Journal Challenge, and I want you to join me this time around. I typically do it throughout the entire week of Thanksgiving. But this year, I want to do it once a week for the month of November right here on the podcast. That way we can get a good pace together without it being overwhelming for you.
Join me every Wednesday as I share with you what I’m grateful for and guide you through journaling what you’re grateful for. You’re going to gain more joy and peace through this exercise! I can’t wait to do this together.
Need a journal? You know I got you, Sis! Head over to my website www.kandiceabateast.com to order one of my beautiful lined journals for this season. Use the promo code “JOURNAL15” for 15% off the journal through Thanksgiving, but get it now so you can have it for the challenge.
Also, while you’re at my site, don’t forget you can always use the promo code “PODCAST10” for a 10% discount off my books, and you can sign up for my email list on my website as well.
Keep in mind I’m offering Heartbreak Coaching Sessions! Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com for pricing and scheduling information.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Oct 25, 2022
Tuesday Oct 25, 2022
Hey Sis!
Are you really confused in this season of your life? Are you wondering why did your heart have to be the one to break? Why did your relationship have to be the one to fail? And why is God even allowing this to happen?
I want you to join me today as I get a really vulnerable with you today! You know that promise God gave me about getting married that I mentioned to you a couple of times? I’m going to read the actual journal entry to you today.
Then, I’m going to share the revelation that God is has given me and is continuing to give me about why He needed time alone with me before I got married. While the heartbreak was devastating, I am so honored and feel so loved that God thought enough about me to redirect me on my path.
If you are wondering “why me?” right now. I want you to listen to today’s episode. Then, I want you to pray. Ask God why you are in this season right now. Ask Him what He is trying to teach you. What is He developing in you?
If you have an open heart with God, He will begin sharing secrets with you and giving you revelation about your life that you would have never imagined. Let’s dig into today’s episode!
Sis, don’t forget my book is for sale on my website, Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional, as well as my journals. Be sure to use the promo code “PODCAST10” for your 10% discount.
Also, if you are going through heartbreak and would like to get some help to make some real progress in your healing journey, I am offering coaching sessions now to assist you. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com, for pricing and scheduling details.
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Oct 24, 2022
Monday Oct 24, 2022
Hey Sis!
The book is officially out into the world, and people have received their copies. But don’t worry, I’m still bringing you more goodness from the book here on the podcast. I’m still reading excerpts every Monday in the month of October.
Today’s excerpt talks about taking time to sit at the feet of Jesus to find whatever we need. The scripture reference is Luke 10:41-42 (AMP).
We get so busy with everything we have going on in our lives that we miss the truly important things. We sometimes waste time on distracting things that won’t benefit us; but sometimes, our activities or things we need to get done are truly important. However, we must prioritize so we can make time in our day to sit at the feet of Jesus. Although I feel like I’m in a Martha season of my life, I strive to be like Mary because I want the best–Jesus! Let’s listen together sis!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. And don’t forget, as a podcast listener, you can always get a 10% discount off of my products on my website by using the promo code “PODCAST10”. You can also sign up for my email list on my website as well.
Don’t forget I’m offering Self-Worth Sessions! Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com. If I still have spots available for a free session, feel free to grab one of those. If not, email me for pricing and scheduling.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Hey!
Do you struggle with guilt or shame or both? If so, this episode is for you. I have a great guest today to really walk us through the difference between guilt and shame.
As Christian women we sometimes suffer from guilt and shame more than others because we feel more conviction when we do things that are not of God. While conviction in a good thing to help us correct our behaviors, God doesn’t want us to constantly live under the weight of our sin.
Jessica tells us about her experiences in relationships when trying to conform to the image that would make guys love her. Then, she accepted Jesus and slowly took the journey of seeking God and renewing her mind.
A little about Jessica: Jessica Hottle is a faith-based fitness coach, podcast host, best-selling author, and speaker with a heart for teaching Christian women how to honor their feelings and heal from their hurt from a Biblical perspective. She is the author of 4 books with her new book being Face Off with Your Feelings: Break Up with the Lies From Your Past and Embrace the Truth for Your Future. Jessica is the host of From Head to Heart, a show where she teaches women how to trust God, heal emotionally, and Grow their relationship with Him. When she isn’t writing, speaking, or coaching you can find her enjoying time with her husband Jon, loving on their three cats, and spending her free time outside whenever she can (playing golf, hiking, reading, or writing in her journal).
Sis, you don’t want to miss this episode! Turn me up in those earbuds so we can get into it.
Check out Jessica’s links below to connect with her:
Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/jessicahottle
Website: http://www.jessicahottle.com
Also, if you are struggling with guilt and shame, and you’re ready to see yourself the way God sees you, grab a Self-Worth Session with me. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com. If I still have spots available for a free session, feel free to grab one of those. If not, email me for pricing and scheduling.
Don’t forget my book and journal is available for purchase on my website. Just click this link: Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional. Also, as a podcast listener, you can always get a 10% discount off of my products on my website by using the promo code “PODCAST10”
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to show support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Oct 17, 2022
Monday Oct 17, 2022
Hey Sis!
The book is officially out into the world, and people have received their copies. But don’t worry, I’m still bringing you more goodness from the book here on the podcast. I’m still reading excerpts every Monday in the month of October.
Today’s excerpt talks about the power God brings to our lives when we simply let Him be the big God that He is. The scripture reference is Numbers 23:19 (NIV).
We serve a powerful God! But sometimes we diminish His power in our lives simply because we don't view Him correctly. Many of us often tend to view God as a human being instead of the most powerful being ever! When we take God out of the box we have placed Him in and give Him room to really flex and show off, we get to see Him do amazing things in our lives. If you’re tired of living a status quo life and you’re ready for God to show out in your life, take a quick listen to today’s devotion!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. Today is the last day you can get a 20% discount with the promo code “RELEASE20”. You can also sign up for my email list on my website as well.
Don’t forget I’m offering Self-Worth Sessions! Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com. If I still have spots available for a free session, feel free to grab one of those. If not, email me for pricing and scheduling.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
If you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing, join my email list by emailing at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com with the subject line “join email list” or you can sign up on my website www.kandiceabateast.com
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Wednesday Oct 12, 2022
Wednesday Oct 12, 2022
Hey Sis!
Are you struggling with your self-worth and self esteem after a breakup, and you’re not quite sure what to do about it? I know the struggle to see yourself the way God sees you. I dealt with it too.
Today, we are going to dig into the first step of recognizing and rebuilding your self-worth. This is such a journey and a process that I really just want to get you started today. I want you to sit with the information that you collect from today’s exercise.
And if after going through this exercise you realize you would like some support and accountability, maybe even help coming up with specific ways to battle these thoughts, schedule a self-worth session with me. I have 5 free spots available in the month of October. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com.
Don’t forget my book is available for purchase on my website. Just click this link: Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional. Also, you can get a 20% discount this week. Just use the promo code “RELEASE20”. It expires October 17, 2022, so act quickly!
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to show support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Oct 11, 2022
Tuesday Oct 11, 2022
Hey Sis!
One day you were building a life and a future with the man of your dreams, and the next day, the relationship is over. That is tough! Being in a season of heartbreak is very much like being in the wilderness. Everything looks dry and lifeless, and you just want to get out. However, everything looks the same, and you’re not sure which road will lead you to the place you want to be.
Wouldn’t a guide, some sort of step-by-step process, be nice! That is what I’m giving you today! It’s hard to imagine getting to a place of joy and fulfillment after your heart has been shattered. Yes, it’s hard, but not impossible.
I use my new book, Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional, as the guide to take you through a 6-step process to have the life you want, even after your heart has been broken. Side note, you can get a copy of my book with a 20% discount this week only. Just use the promo code “RELEASE20”.
If you’re feeling hopeless after that relationship has ended, this is definitely the episode you don’t want to miss! Turn me up in those earbuds and listen up! We’re about to get into it!
Don’t forget that I am now offering Self-Worth Sessions to help you recognize your self-worth after a breakup and begin mending your broken heart. Right now, I have 5 free spots available on a first-come-first-serve basis, so be sure to schedule yours quickly. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com, and I will send you a link to complete the scheduling process. Someone has to get free coaching. It may as well be you!
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Hey Sis!
Today is the day! That’s right, the book is officially being released today, and I am so excited!! In honor of this book launch, I will be reading excerpts from the book every Monday in the Month of October, right here on the Podcast.
Today’s excerpt talks about how confusing it can be when bad things happen in our lives. The scripture reference is John 13:7 (NIV).
A brokenhearted season is definitely confusing and makes you wonder what is God really doing up there. I get it! I know I spent many days wondering what’s going on. I didn’t understand in the moment; but as time went on, things became clearer. Be patient sis! There is purpose behind your pain. Know that God doesn’t waste anything! If you need encouragement today, take a listen!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. To celebrate this release, you can get a 20% discount with the promo code “RELEASE20”.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
If you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing, join my email list by emailing at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com with the subject line “join email list” or you can sign up on my website www.kandiceabateast.com
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose