GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women, Christian Singles
Do you feel heartbroken over a recent breakup? Did you think he was “the one”, but it turned out to be another failed relationship? Are you feeling like you’ll never find “the one” for you? Do you wish God would just bring the right man along so you can be happy? In this podcast I will share my journey of looking for love in all the wrong places to finally finding the true love I needed and how that led to me getting into the right position to be married. I had a lot of work to do in my single season. When I finally put God first in my life and truly gave Him my heart, I became content as a single woman. Then, and only then was I ready for marriage. I will share all my tips and insight on healing and moving on after painful breakups, growing close to God during heartbreak, and how to get into position to have the deepest desires of your heart (i.e., marriage, children, etc.). If you’re ready to ditch that broken heart for healing and wholeness, you’re in the right place. Hey Sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother of 3. I’m carrying out the call God placed on my life by helping women heal and move forward after breakups. While I love my life now, this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I had a broken heart and was unfulfilled with my life. The cycle of failed relationships began to make me have thoughts like, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not enough?” I desperately wanted to find the right man for me and get married. So I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Then, in 2015, my heart was shattered, and I knew something had to change. I finally realized that if I was ever going to truly heal my heart and be fulfilled, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. Through healing and connection with God, I finally felt whole and complete. I learned the proper way to heal and grow my relationship with God, and I want to help you do the same. Plus I have tips to help you get ready for future relationships, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be complete and lacking nothing. If you are ready to finally heal your heart, stop going from failed relationship to failed relationship, and grow your relationship with God in the midst of it, all while becoming the woman you want to be who is ready when the right man comes along–this is definitely the podcast for you. Sis, kick off those cute shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day and turn me up in those earbuds, we’re about to get into it! Links Connect: contact@kandiceabateast.com IG: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/427484885847810/ Book: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/shop Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose
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Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Tuesday Oct 18, 2022
Hey!
Do you struggle with guilt or shame or both? If so, this episode is for you. I have a great guest today to really walk us through the difference between guilt and shame.
As Christian women we sometimes suffer from guilt and shame more than others because we feel more conviction when we do things that are not of God. While conviction in a good thing to help us correct our behaviors, God doesn’t want us to constantly live under the weight of our sin.
Jessica tells us about her experiences in relationships when trying to conform to the image that would make guys love her. Then, she accepted Jesus and slowly took the journey of seeking God and renewing her mind.
A little about Jessica: Jessica Hottle is a faith-based fitness coach, podcast host, best-selling author, and speaker with a heart for teaching Christian women how to honor their feelings and heal from their hurt from a Biblical perspective. She is the author of 4 books with her new book being Face Off with Your Feelings: Break Up with the Lies From Your Past and Embrace the Truth for Your Future. Jessica is the host of From Head to Heart, a show where she teaches women how to trust God, heal emotionally, and Grow their relationship with Him. When she isn’t writing, speaking, or coaching you can find her enjoying time with her husband Jon, loving on their three cats, and spending her free time outside whenever she can (playing golf, hiking, reading, or writing in her journal).
Sis, you don’t want to miss this episode! Turn me up in those earbuds so we can get into it.
Check out Jessica’s links below to connect with her:
Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/jessicahottle
Website: http://www.jessicahottle.com
Also, if you are struggling with guilt and shame, and you’re ready to see yourself the way God sees you, grab a Self-Worth Session with me. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com. If I still have spots available for a free session, feel free to grab one of those. If not, email me for pricing and scheduling.
Don’t forget my book and journal is available for purchase on my website. Just click this link: Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional. Also, as a podcast listener, you can always get a 10% discount off of my products on my website by using the promo code “PODCAST10”
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to show support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Oct 17, 2022
Monday Oct 17, 2022
Hey Sis!
The book is officially out into the world, and people have received their copies. But don’t worry, I’m still bringing you more goodness from the book here on the podcast. I’m still reading excerpts every Monday in the month of October.
Today’s excerpt talks about the power God brings to our lives when we simply let Him be the big God that He is. The scripture reference is Numbers 23:19 (NIV).
We serve a powerful God! But sometimes we diminish His power in our lives simply because we don't view Him correctly. Many of us often tend to view God as a human being instead of the most powerful being ever! When we take God out of the box we have placed Him in and give Him room to really flex and show off, we get to see Him do amazing things in our lives. If you’re tired of living a status quo life and you’re ready for God to show out in your life, take a quick listen to today’s devotion!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. Today is the last day you can get a 20% discount with the promo code “RELEASE20”. You can also sign up for my email list on my website as well.
Don’t forget I’m offering Self-Worth Sessions! Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com. If I still have spots available for a free session, feel free to grab one of those. If not, email me for pricing and scheduling.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
If you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing, join my email list by emailing at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com with the subject line “join email list” or you can sign up on my website www.kandiceabateast.com
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Wednesday Oct 12, 2022
Wednesday Oct 12, 2022
Hey Sis!
Are you struggling with your self-worth and self esteem after a breakup, and you’re not quite sure what to do about it? I know the struggle to see yourself the way God sees you. I dealt with it too.
Today, we are going to dig into the first step of recognizing and rebuilding your self-worth. This is such a journey and a process that I really just want to get you started today. I want you to sit with the information that you collect from today’s exercise.
And if after going through this exercise you realize you would like some support and accountability, maybe even help coming up with specific ways to battle these thoughts, schedule a self-worth session with me. I have 5 free spots available in the month of October. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com.
Don’t forget my book is available for purchase on my website. Just click this link: Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional. Also, you can get a 20% discount this week. Just use the promo code “RELEASE20”. It expires October 17, 2022, so act quickly!
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to show support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Oct 11, 2022
Tuesday Oct 11, 2022
Hey Sis!
One day you were building a life and a future with the man of your dreams, and the next day, the relationship is over. That is tough! Being in a season of heartbreak is very much like being in the wilderness. Everything looks dry and lifeless, and you just want to get out. However, everything looks the same, and you’re not sure which road will lead you to the place you want to be.
Wouldn’t a guide, some sort of step-by-step process, be nice! That is what I’m giving you today! It’s hard to imagine getting to a place of joy and fulfillment after your heart has been shattered. Yes, it’s hard, but not impossible.
I use my new book, Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional, as the guide to take you through a 6-step process to have the life you want, even after your heart has been broken. Side note, you can get a copy of my book with a 20% discount this week only. Just use the promo code “RELEASE20”.
If you’re feeling hopeless after that relationship has ended, this is definitely the episode you don’t want to miss! Turn me up in those earbuds and listen up! We’re about to get into it!
Don’t forget that I am now offering Self-Worth Sessions to help you recognize your self-worth after a breakup and begin mending your broken heart. Right now, I have 5 free spots available on a first-come-first-serve basis, so be sure to schedule yours quickly. Just email me at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com, and I will send you a link to complete the scheduling process. Someone has to get free coaching. It may as well be you!
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Hey Sis!
Today is the day! That’s right, the book is officially being released today, and I am so excited!! In honor of this book launch, I will be reading excerpts from the book every Monday in the Month of October, right here on the Podcast.
Today’s excerpt talks about how confusing it can be when bad things happen in our lives. The scripture reference is John 13:7 (NIV).
A brokenhearted season is definitely confusing and makes you wonder what is God really doing up there. I get it! I know I spent many days wondering what’s going on. I didn’t understand in the moment; but as time went on, things became clearer. Be patient sis! There is purpose behind your pain. Know that God doesn’t waste anything! If you need encouragement today, take a listen!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. To celebrate this release, you can get a 20% discount with the promo code “RELEASE20”.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
If you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing, join my email list by emailing at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com with the subject line “join email list” or you can sign up on my website www.kandiceabateast.com
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Oct 04, 2022
Tuesday Oct 04, 2022
Hey Sis!
Now that you’re out of that toxic relationship, do you have questions about your own behavior? Are you asking, “Why did I let him treat me that way?” or “Why didn’t I speak up for myself?” If so, this episode is for you.
Today, we’re talking about boundaries with our special guest, La’Toya Guillory. La’Toya is a relationship coach, so she has a wealth of information to share with us on the importance of setting boundaries and how it helps as a single Christian woman in dating relationships.
Here’s a little more about La’Toya. She is a Christian woman who is also a wife and mother. She has a master’s degree in human services counseling with a specialization in marriage and family. She is a certified Marriage Enrichment Facilitator. La’Toya empowers people through marriage enrichment, premarital counseling, couples group counseling, and more. She has over 16 years of experience in the human services field.
La’Toya and her husband founded The Family Connection Inc. in 2018. This is a non-profit that offers life skills, counseling services, case management, transitional housing services, educational development, and career guidance for older foster care youth.
She was recently honored as one of Acadiana’s top 20 under 40 young leaders in 2018. She is the owner and founder of Empowered with Purpose LLC, where she serves as a Relationship Coach. She is also the author of Anchored: Anchored in Christ and Anchored in Marriage. Her mission in life is to help people recognize their strengths and utilize them in every aspect of relationships.
La’Toya shares her expertise with us, but she also shares her personal experience on the matter. You don’t want to miss this episode as you continue on your healing journey and hope to start dating again. Turn me up in those earbuds and get ready to take some notes, Sis! We’re about to get into it!
Want to connect with La’Toya? Check out her links below
Website
Purposely Driven Podcast
Facebook
Instagram
LinkedIn
Goodreads
YouTube
Pinterest
Hope Writers
The Family Connection Inc.
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Oct 03, 2022
Monday Oct 03, 2022
Hey Sis!
So, we had to push back the book release date a little, but no worries. That just means there’s more time for you to get the goods. In honor of the new October 10th book launch, I will be reading excerpts from the book every Monday in the Month of October, right here on the Podcast.
Today’s excerpt talks about how having a broken heart can cause us to be weary and burdened. The scripture reference is Matthew 11:28-30 (HCSB).
Heartbreak is heavy, and when it happens, we feel that weight day after day. I’m so glad that Jesus invites us to bring our heavy burdens to Him in exchange for His rest. Having rest in the midst of a difficult season is priceless! Go to Jesus, Sis! He’s waiting for you!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, which is live now! I am not taking preorders, and you can get a 25% discount when you use the code “PREORDER”. There’s just a couple of days left to get this special discount, so don’t miss out!
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
If you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing, join my email list by emailing at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com with the subject line “join email list” or you can sign up on my website www.kandiceabateast.com
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Wednesday Sep 28, 2022
Wednesday Sep 28, 2022
Hey Sis!
In honor of my October 1st book launch, I will be reading excerpts from the book every Monday and Wednesday in the month of September, right here on the Podcast.
Today’s excerpt talks about allowing God to work in your life during this season of heartbreak. The scripture reference is Exodus 14:21-22 (NIV).
I have a few devotions in this book that I particularly enjoyed writing, and everytime I read them, I get chills. God is such a big God, and I love to see the instances in the Bible when He showed off. However, I also love to see the instances in my own life where He showed off, those Red Sea moments.
I want you to be able to recognize those Red Sea moments in your life too. If you feel stuck, confused, overwhelmed, or not sure how you’re going to make it, look at this moment as an opportunity for God to flex his muscles and show just how big He is. Be encouraged, Sis! This is your moment!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, which is live now! I am not taking preorders, and you can get a 25% discount when you use the code “PREORDER”. There’s just a couple of days left to get this special discount, so don’t miss out!
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
If you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing, join my email list by emailing at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com with the subject line “join email list” or you can sign up on my website www.kandiceabateast.com
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Sep 27, 2022
Tuesday Sep 27, 2022
Hey Sis!
Today we’re touching on a subject that I haven’t touched on much just yet, and that’s forgiveness. You don’t have to tell me. I know you don’t want to forgive him. You feel like you can’t forgive him. You may even think he doesn’t deserve your forgiveness. And guess what…you may be right!
Still, forgiveness is necessary. People say a lot of things forgiveness, but today, I’m breaking it down to 3 simple reasons why you need to forgive your ex. I also offer some perspective for you to take if this is really difficult for you.
As a bonus, I give you a declaration at the end for you to recite to help you in this forgiveness journey, so be sure to listen until the end.
So turn me up in those earbuds sis! It’s time to heal!
If you like this topic, I dig into each one of these reasons in 3 different devotions in my book Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose. Grab your copy from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. Pre Order your copy today, and you can get a 25% discount when you use the code “PREORDER”. And while you’re on my website, join my email list so you can stay in the know about what’s going on.
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
Christian Women Overcoming Heartbreak and Finding Purpose | Facebook
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously.
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Hey Sis!
In honor of my October 1st book launch, I will be reading excerpts from the book every Monday and Wednesday in the month of September, right here on the Podcast.
Today’s excerpt talks about what happens when we doubt God. The scripture reference is Mark 9:24 (NLT).
Today’s scripture is one I have cried out plenty of times. We all struggle with doubting God from time to time, especially during dark seasons. When we bring our unbelief to God and ask for His help, it’s amazing what He will do! Don’t miss this one, Sis! It’s good!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, which is live now! Preorders start today, and you can get a 25% discount when you use the code “PREORDER”.
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
If you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing, join my email list by emailing at goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com with the subject line “join email list” or you can sign up on my website www.kandiceabateast.com
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakh