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069. 3 Benefits From Reflecting On This Year, Especially After a Breakup + My #1 Way to Reflect

Hey Sis!
I know reflecting on 2022 may be the last thing you want to do right now, especially if you experienced a breakup or loss of any kind. But like it or not, the new year is coming and if you want 2023 to be better than 2022, it would be wise not to skip this step.
When you are able to look at your life as a whole over this year, not just focusing on the breakup or your ex, you will truly learn a lot about yourself and your experiences. You can gain a grateful heart and maybe understand why certain events had to happen.
I have been doing my reflections so far, and I have been super grateful. I’m also able to see what I want to be different next year. 
So don’t just go into next year without a plan. I want you to heal, grow, and thrive in 2023. So let’s inventory what happened in 2022 and use it all to thrust us into the next phase of life that God has for us. I can’t wait to talk to you today. Take a listen! 
Struggling to move on from your ex? Do you need help on your healing journey? Would you like help coming up with a plan for the holidays? Grab a heartbreak coaching session with me. On the fence about grabbing a session? No problem! I’m offering FREE 10 minute discovery calls. Click one of the links below so you can start making real progress on your healing journey!
Book a FREE 10 minute discovery call
Book a 60 minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Don’t forget to grab your copy of my book, Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and get your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code:  PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal. 
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

068. Disappointed By Your Breakup? 5 Ways to Shift Your Focus From Your Ex to Jesus This Christmas

Hey Sis!
I know all you’re probably thinking about right now is your ex and everything you two had planned this year–shopping, seeing the lights, meeting his family, and spending Christmas Day together. And now, you probably can’t wait for Christmas to be over, but it doesn’t have to be a miserable time of year. It takes being intentional about shifting your perspective.
A lot of people, especially single women dread Christmas time because they feel like this is the time of year that you should have a special person in your life. However, that’s not what the season is about at all.
Christmas is all about Jesus; and today, I’m going to share some ways that you can shift all the focus you’ve been putting on your ex and what could have been with you two, to Jesus and His birth and life. 
When you’re fresh out of a breakup you have many unique opportunities. Christmas is one of them. You have the opportunity to really get to know Jesus in a fresh way and see what the holidays are truly about. I can’t wait to help you shift! Let’s do it!
Struggling to move on from your ex? Do you need help on your healing journey? Would you like help coming up with a plan for the holidays? Grab a heartbreak coaching session with me. On the fence about grabbing a session? No problem! I’m offering FREE 10 minute discovery calls. Click one of the links below so you can start making real progress on your healing journey!
Book a FREE 10 minute discovery call
Book a 60 minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
 
Don’t forget to grab your copy of my book, Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and get your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code:  PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal. The book and journal make excellent Christmas gifts for yourself or someone else!
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

067. Minisode: Can You See His Heart

Hey Sis!
It’s December already! I’ll still be treating you to a devotion from my book every Monday right here on the podcast. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. In November, I read from section 3, which was about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading from section 4 of the book which is about preparing for future relationships and marriage.
Today’s devotion is about seeing the heart of a man through God’s eyes. The scripture reference is 1 Samuel 16:7 (MSG).
Do you believe you have it all figured out when it comes to what you want in a guy? Have you ever considered that the person God has for you may look nothing like your list? 
When we think of the person we want to marry, we tend to begin with the physical features without thinking about the heart of the man. Before you choose your next mate, ask God to allow you to see potential mates through his eyes and let the Holy Spirit lead you. Let’s get into it, Sis!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book: 
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and don’t forget your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code:  PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal. 
Something new! I’m now offering gift cards on my website! Send this link to someone who’s looking for the perfect gift for you: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/gift-card. And if you know another sister on her heart healing journey, why not bless her with a gift card as well? She will be so thankful to you!
Sis, is the pain from this breakup just too much for you to handle on your own? Are you feeling like you’ll never make it through this season of your life? You don’t have to struggle through your healing journey. Let me help you! Book a 60-Minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, so you can start making real progress in your healing journey. You can get started working with me for as little as $47. Remember, you are worth the investment!
Not sure Heartbreak Coaching Sessions are right for you? Book a free 5 to 10 minute discovery call. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Use this link to schedule your discovery call today. Free Heartbreak Coaching Discovery Call 
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
You can also follow me on Instagram  @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

066. Struggling With a Breakup This Christmas? 6 Broken Heart Holiday Survival Tips

Hey Sis!
Are you fresh out of a relationship this holiday season? Are you so over the Christmas decorations, sappy movies, and heartbreak holiday songs? Do you just want Christmas and New Years to be over already?!
I know exactly how you feel. The holidays rolled around while I was going through my heart healing journey, and it was tough. I struggled through it, but I wish I could have a had a little more help or a better idea about how to get through it.
That’s why I came up with these survival tips for you! I thought about what I did and what I needed during that particular holiday season. I want you to enjoy this Christmas as much as you possibly can.
A breakup doesn’t mean you have to isolate yourself and be depressed. Get out, get around others, and have some fun. Get a pen and paper so you can write down these tips and start implementing them now!
Struggling to move on from your ex? Do you need help on your healing journey? Would you like help coming up with a plan for the holidays? Grab a heartbreak coaching session with me. On the fence about grabbing a session? No problem! I’m offering FREE 10 minute discovery calls. Click one of the links below so you can start making real progress on your healing journey!
Book a FREE 10 minute discovery call
Book a 60 minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
 
Don’t forget to grab your copy of my book, Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and get your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code:  PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal. 
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

065. Minisode: Choose Wisely

Hey Sis!
It’s December already! I’ll still be treating you to a devotion from my book every Monday right here on the podcast. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. In November, I read from section 3, which was about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading from section 4 of the book which is about preparing for future relationships and marriage.
Today’s excerpt is about using wisdom when choosing a mate. The scripture reference is Genesis 29:34 (NLT).
Are you feeling like you’re ready to start dating again? Maybe you keep thinking about your ex and whether or not you should go back to that relationship. Either way, you need to exercise wisdom when making a decision. 
If you’re making progress on your healing journey or you’ve found healing, the last thing you want to do is unravel all the hard work you’ve done. We don’t want to experience heartbreak again, if we can help it. 
Ask the Holy Spirit to order your steps before you choose your next mate. And if you’re still healing, store the information from this devotion for a later date because you have work to do. I pray this devotion gives you something to think about! Listen up, Sis! 
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book: 
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and don’t forget your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code:  PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal. 
Something new! I’m now offering gift cards on my website! Send this link to someone who’s looking for the perfect gift for you: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/gift-card. And if you know another sister on her heart healing journey, why not bless her with a gift card as well? She will be so thankful to you!
Sis, is the pain from this breakup just too much for you to handle on your own? Are you feeling like you’ll never make it through this season of your life? You don’t have to struggle through your healing journey. Let me help you! Book a 60-Minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, so you can start making real progress in your healing journey. You can get started working with me for as little as $47. Remember, you are worth the investment!
Not sure Heartbreak Coaching Sessions are right for you? Book a free 5 to 10 minute discovery call. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Use this link to schedule your discovery call today. Free Heartbreak Coaching Discovery Call 
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
You can also follow me on Instagram  @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

064. 6 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married

Hey Sis!
So, my husband and I just celebrated 6 years of marriage in November. Things aren’t perfect, but we’re in a much better place now than where we were at the beginning of our marriage. Partly because of the things I had to learn as a new wife.
There was a point in my single season that I was so desperate to be married. I placed that desire above the desire for anything else. But can I say it was a selfish desire back then. The reasons I wanted to get married were not good enough to make a marriage last. So as you can imagine, I had a lot of lessons to learn.
You may be in that place of having a very strong desire to be married, but marriage is not for the faint at heart. I’m not, by any means, trying to discourage you from desiring marriage. Instead, I’m sharing just a few things I wish I knew before I got married. Maybe it will give you some wisdom to consider and decide if you need to work on any of these things in your single season. 
So get ready to do a little examination of your own behaviors and desires on today. You may want to journal through some of these things or bring them to God in prayer if you know you struggle with any of these things. You may even realize you have things to work on that I didn’t mention. Let’s do this, Sis!
And if you would like to give me an anniversary gift 😉, leave me a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast. That’s the best gift you can give me to say thank you, and I would really appreciate it! Plus it helps other women just like you find the show and glean all the wisdom you have already received. 
Struggling to move on from your ex? Do you need help on your healing journey? Grab a heartbreak coaching session with me. On the fence about grabbing a session? No problem! I’m offering FREE 10 minute discovery calls. Click one of the links below so you can start making real progress on your healing journey!
Book a FREE 10 minute discovery call
Book a 60 minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Don’t forget to grab your copy of my book, Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and get your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code:  PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal. 
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

063.Minisode: Don’t Go Back To The Familiar

Hey Sis!
It’s December already! I’ll still be treating you to a devotion from my book every Monday right here on the podcast. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. In November, I read from section 3, which was about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading from section 4 of the book which is about preparing for future relationships and marriage.
Today’s excerpt is about not going back to what you’re used to. The scripture reference is John 21:3 (NIV).
In your healing journey, there comes this awkward, in between time when you’re not quite sure what to do. The pain has stopped, and you’re not sure what’s next. Just because the pain has stopped doesn’t mean there’s not more healing and growing to be done.
It can be so tempting to return to your old life. It’s familiar and comfortable to you. Like really, who doesn't like to live in their comfort zone?! But if God called you out of that place, you shouldn’t go back. Stick with Him on your journey, and He will lead you to what’s next. What awaits you in God is so much better than what you had in the world!
This is a devotion you don’t want to miss! Turn me up, Sis!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book: 
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and don’t forget your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code:  PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal. 
Sis, is the pain from this breakup just too much for you to handle on your own? Are you feeling like you’ll never make it through this season of your life? You don’t have to struggle through your healing journey. Let me help you! Book a 60-Minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, so you can start making real progress in your healing journey. You can get started working with me for as little as $47. Remember, you are worth the investment!
Not sure Heartbreak Coaching Sessions are right for you? Book a free 5 to 10 minute discovery call. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Use this link to schedule your discovery call today. Free Heartbreak Coaching Discovery Call 
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
You can also follow me on Instagram  @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

062. I Am Grateful For The Lessons I Learned In This Season, GJC Week 5

Hey Sis!
We are in week 5 of the Gratitude Journal Challenge. This is our final week, and this is the final episode for this year’s challenge.  
Just a reminder, I will give you a focus category. This week we are focusing on being grateful for the lessons we have learned in this season of our lives. Listen to my 3 things that I’m grateful for in this area. Then, choose your own. I don’t want you to rush through this. Take your time and do this sis. Soak in the moment and thank God for everything. 
Also, give a shoutout to this week’s winner in the Facebook group.
Join the Facebook Group to really take advantage of the challenge and win some great prizes! The winner chosen for week 5 will win a free 60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, which must be used before the end of this year. 
How do you enter for a chance to win a prize? I’m glad you asked
✨Listen to the podcast episode every Wednesday where I will share what I’m grateful for and give you the focus category for the week!
✨Spend time during the week praying and journaling. Then write a minimum of 3 things you’re grateful for within the given focus category!
✨Come to the Facebook group and comment on the post for the week with one thing you wrote that you’re grateful for within the focus category!
✨Finally, stay tuned to hear whether or not you won a prize for being a part of the challenge! I will be announcing winners every week in November on the podcast!
This is going to be so much fun, and it’s so needed! Please be a part so you can see a shift in your perspective, going from the negative to the positive!
Don’t forget you can go to my website www.kandiceabateast.com and order your beautiful lined journal or my book (digital or paperback copy) Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional, with the promo code “PODCAST10” and get a 10% discount just for being a podcast listener. 
Struggling to move on from your ex? Do you need help on your healing journey? Grab a Heartbreak Coaching Session with me. On the fence about grabbing a session? No problem! I’m offering FREE 10 minute discovery calls. Click one of the links below so you can start making real progress on your healing journey!
Book a FREE 10 minute discovery call
Book a 60 minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
**Instructions for purchasing coaching services. Send me a message at https://www.kandiceabateast.com/contact with your info indicating you want to purchase and schedule a coaching session. I will invoice you. Once you pay the invoice, you will receive a link to schedule.
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Go to www.kandiceabateast.com/contact and submit your question, and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

061. Resting In God With A Broken Heart From Psalms 46:10

Hey Sis!
Peace is hard to come by after a breakup, especially when that relationship meant so much to you. I have been there, but can I share a revelation that I got during that time? There’s still rest for you in this season.  
That’s right, God gave me an invitation to rest in him in the midst of my heartbreak. And can I be honest and say I rejected the invitation at first. But when I finally accepted it, it changed everything for me. 
Today, we’re breaking down a somewhat familiar passage of scripture, Psalms 46:10. When I learned how to be still and let God do the work, it took away the stress and anxiety I felt. Yes, I was still heartbroken at first, but I was able to stop toiling and trying to make things happen. I allowed God to truly have His way. 
I can’t wait for you to get the revelation I received about resting in God. Let this scripture take root in your heart. Repeat it everyday! Turn me up in those earbuds Sis! It’s time to get it!
Remember, we have one more week of the Gratitude Journal Challenge. Join me on the last  Wednesday of this month as I share with you the things I’m grateful for, and I’ll guide you through the exercise  so you can participate as well. If you didn’t get your journal yet, go to my website www.kandiceabateast.com and order your beautiful lined journal with the promo code “JOURNAL15”  for 15% off the journal. And you can still get a copy of my book Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional, with the promo code “PODCAST10” for your 10% discount.
Struggling to move on from your ex? Do you need help on your healing journey? Grab a heartbreak coaching session with me. On the fence about grabbing a session? No problem! I’m offering FREE 10 minute discovery calls. Click one of the links below so you can start making real progress on your healing journey!
Book a FREE 10 minute discovery call
Book a 60 minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Make sure you come over to the Facebook group so we can continue this conversation!
The Healing Heartbreak Community, Single Women, Healing Broken Hearts | Facebook
Don’t forget to visit my website www.kandiceabateast.com and sign up for my email list to be sure you don’t miss a thing! You may also want to do a little shopping while you’re there to go deeper in your healing journey.
Don’t feel comfortable sharing questions in the Facebook group, but you would like the group’s feedback? Email your question to goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose@gmail.com and I can post them in the group anonymously. 
And you can follow me on Instagram:   @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

060. Minsode Embracing Singleness: It’s A Necessity

Hey Sis!
In the month of November, I will be reading a devotion from the book on the podcast every Monday. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. This month, I will be reading from section 3, which is about finding yourself.
This month, I’ll be reading devotions about getting back the things the enemy stole from you like your peace, joy, strength, and identity.
Today’s excerpt is about embracing your singleness. The scripture reference is 1 Corinthians 7:34-35 (NLT).
Newly single is probably the last place you saw yourself being at the end of this year. It may even be the last place you want to be. But know this Sis, being single isn’t all bad. In fact, singleness brings about a significant amount of benefits, not to mention, it’s necessary. 
Join me today as we dig into the necessity of embracing your singleness and just how beneficial it will be for you moving forward. Let’s get, Sis!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book: 
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com. And if you missed the Black Friday Sale, you get one more chance to get these incredible deals, as today is Cyber Monday! Just use the promo code:  PODBLACK30 at checkout to get 30% off.
Coaching services are included. Just go to www.kandiceabateast.com/contact to request a coaching session with me. Include the promo code: PODBLACK30 in your message to receive the 30% discount. 
Has Black Friday and Cyber Monday come and gone but you still want to purchase some of my products? No problem, go to my website www.kandiceabateast.com and order your beautiful lined journal or my book (digital or paperback copy) Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional, with the promo code “PODCAST10” and get a 10% discount.
Remember, we have started the Gratitude Journal Challenge! Go back and listen to Episode 50 to learn how to participate. It’s free and fun, and you get a chance to win some great prizes!
Want to see if my heartbreak coaching sessions are right for you. Book a free 5 to 10 minute discovery call. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Use this link to schedule your discovery call today. Free Heartbreak Coaching Discovery Call 
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
You can also follow me on Instagram  @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose