GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women, Christian Singles
Do you feel heartbroken over a recent breakup? Did you think he was “the one”, but it turned out to be another failed relationship? Are you feeling like you’ll never find “the one” for you? Do you wish God would just bring the right man along so you can be happy? In this podcast I will share my journey of looking for love in all the wrong places to finally finding the true love I needed and how that led to me getting into the right position to be married. I had a lot of work to do in my single season. When I finally put God first in my life and truly gave Him my heart, I became content as a single woman. Then, and only then was I ready for marriage. I will share all my tips and insight on healing and moving on after painful breakups, growing close to God during heartbreak, and how to get into position to have the deepest desires of your heart (i.e., marriage, children, etc.). If you’re ready to ditch that broken heart for healing and wholeness, you’re in the right place. Hey Sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother of 3. I’m carrying out the call God placed on my life by helping women heal and move forward after breakups. While I love my life now, this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I had a broken heart and was unfulfilled with my life. The cycle of failed relationships began to make me have thoughts like, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not enough?” I desperately wanted to find the right man for me and get married. So I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Then, in 2015, my heart was shattered, and I knew something had to change. I finally realized that if I was ever going to truly heal my heart and be fulfilled, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. Through healing and connection with God, I finally felt whole and complete. I learned the proper way to heal and grow my relationship with God, and I want to help you do the same. Plus I have tips to help you get ready for future relationships, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be complete and lacking nothing. If you are ready to finally heal your heart, stop going from failed relationship to failed relationship, and grow your relationship with God in the midst of it, all while becoming the woman you want to be who is ready when the right man comes along–this is definitely the podcast for you. Sis, kick off those cute shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day and turn me up in those earbuds, we’re about to get into it! Links Connect: contact@kandiceabateast.com IG: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/427484885847810/ Book: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/shop Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose
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Wednesday May 24, 2023
Wednesday May 24, 2023
Hey Sis!
May 24, 2022, my life changed! I birthed something that was growing within me. I launched this podcast into the world, and nothing has ever been the same.
We are celebrating our 1 year Podversary on the podcast all week. Today I’m giving stats, shout outs, and insight. Come hear how much we have grown as a community, see if your country is in the top 10, and find out which episodes are fan-favorites.
I’m not only talking stats, though. I’m also giving insight into what I believe all of this actually means. Know that you are not alone on this journey!
Don’t forget about the Podversary Contest happening right now! You have a chance to win a digital copy of my book or some heartbreak coaching. Here are 3 super simple steps to enter for your chance to win:
Go to Apple Podcast and leave a written review (if you already left a review, share your favorite podcast episode with a friend).
Take a screenshot
Post it in the Facebook Group or post it in your IG stories (tag @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose)
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 1 Introduction to Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose//My Story
Ep. 2 The Importance of Emotional Healing After A Breakup//My Top 5 Reasons
Ep. 3 3 Keys To Kickstart Your Spiritual Growth
Ep. 6 We Broke Up, Now What? Where Do I Go From Here? + 10 Steps to Help You Move On After Heartbreak
Ep. 73 3 Simple steps To Create An Plan to Heal Your Broken Heart In The New Year
Ep. 85 God Help Me Get Back Together With My Ex! 6 Things To Pray For Instead
Ep. 89 6 Healthy Ways To Release Negative Emotions (Immediately)
Ep. 95 Heal and Grow Your Confidence to make History After Heartbreak
Ep. 96 How To Hear The Voice of God and Make History After Heartbreak
Ep. 98 5 Tips To Overcome Jealousy As a Single Woman
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Tuesday May 23, 2023
Tuesday May 23, 2023
Hey Sis!
Happy 1 Year Podversary. This is as much of a celebration for you as it is for me. However long you have been listening to the podcast, I just want to say thank you. I’m so glad you are a part of this sisterhood of women on their heart healing journeys.
Today, I want to share my journey of what happened behind the scenes in this past year. Some things you may have heard, while others may shock you. This past year had so many ups and downs, but I wouldn’t change a thing.
I learned so much this past year that has helped me show up better for you. The seeds planted in the last season are producing a harvest in this one. I hope you find the content helpful. Cheers to year 2!
Don’t forget about the Podversary Contest happening right now! You have a chance to win a digital copy of my book or some heartbreak coaching. Here are 3 super simple steps to enter for your chance to win:
Go to Apple Podcast and leave a written review (if you already left a review, share your favorite podcast episode with a friend).
Take a screenshot
Post it in the Facebook Group or post it in your IG stories (tag @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose)
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep.5 Start Walking In Purpose and Carrying Out You Calling Today
Ep. 14 You Are Enough//Take a Me Moment
Ep. 48 Minisode: God Is With You In The Fire
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Tuesday May 16, 2023
Tuesday May 16, 2023
Hey Sis!
In this impossible season, I know it’s hard to think about purpose right now, but I really need you to shift your mindset, Sis! Don’t waste the pain from your broken heart. It’s too valuable. It costs more than you actually wanted to pay, if we can be honest. So why not reap the benefits from it.
Check out my segment from the Called and Confident Virtual Summit that was hosted by Shayla Hilton (host of the Called and Confident Podcast). It was such valuable information that I couldn’t let you miss it. Grab your pen and paper and come find out how to make your pain purposeful.
Don’t forget to send your voice memo to me ASAP about how the podcast has blessed you, so your voice can be heard on the podcast for the 1 year podversary celebration. Send it to contact@kandiceabateast.com
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 73. 3 Simple Steps To Create An Action Plan To Heal Your Broken Heart
Ep. 91 Say Yes To Your Purpose and Make History After Heartbreak with Shayla Hilton
Ep. 99 5 Reasons Heartbreak Was the Best Thing For Me Before Marriage
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Thursday May 11, 2023
Thursday May 11, 2023
Hey Sis!
So we started this conversation with my Sis Lashonda a couple of days ago. If you missed part 1, go back and listen to episode 106.
Are you heartbroken from a divorce? Are you dealing with a broken heart while also trying to be a good mom to your kids? Today’s guest knows all about it. Meet Lashonda:
Lashonda is a graduate of UL Lafayette and strategic thought leader, who values connection through relationship building . As a Senior Consultant at CGI, an international technology consulting company, Lashonda is part of the Corporate Social Responsibility Business partner team. She supports the development and implementation of corporate social responsibility opportunities, including STEM programming and pathways across the US. To further impact the CGI business culture, Lashonda also serves as part of the leadership team for the Working Caregivers member resource group. She is a certified professional project manager, skilled presenter and facilitator and a recent graduate of Leadership Institute of Acadiana's Leadership Lafayette, class XXXIV. To support her community, she currently serves on the Board of Directors for Big Brothers Big Sisters of Acadiana and in various leadership capacities at her local church, Destiny of Faith. With a strong background in sales, creative development, leadership and as a mom, Lashonda highly values the adaptability of agile principles in her personal and professional life. She spends her time serving, reading, writing, and raising her three incredible sons. In addition, Lashonda also shares her life experiences through her lifestyle brand and personal blog, Elle Dean. Lashonda is passionate about helping others live a life they deserve and love whether through inspiration, education, or in service. My philosophy is simple; when you are committed to doing good work, with compassion, honesty, and Faith, you will never lose.
Lashonda opens up even more about how she made it through her season of heartbreak and divorce while also caring for her 3 boys. I love her openness and vulnerability. There is so much to learn from Lashonda, even if you’ve never been married or you’re not a mom.
Join Lashonda and me for this conversation that I know you don’t want to miss!
Connect with Lashonda
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/theelledean/
Facebook -
https://www.facebook.com/TheElleDean
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/mwlite/in/lashondadean
Resources and Services
Send your voice memo to contact@kandiceabateast.com
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 1 Introduction to Goodbye Heartbreak, Hell Purpose//My Story
Ep. 18 10 Scriptures to Combat the Lies of The Enemy…,Part 1
Ep. 21 Bonus: From Heartbroken and Desperate For Healing to Purposeful Survivor, Part 2
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Tuesday May 09, 2023
Tuesday May 09, 2023
Hey Sis!
Are you heartbroken from a divorce? Are you dealing with a broken heart while also trying to be a good mom to your kids? Today’s guest knows all about it. Meet Lashonda:
Lashonda is a graduate of UL Lafayette and strategic thought leader, who values connection through relationship building . As a Senior Consultant at CGI, an international technology consulting company, Lashonda is part of the Corporate Social Responsibility Business partner team. She supports the development and implementation of corporate social responsibility opportunities, including STEM programming and pathways across the US. To further impact the CGI business culture, Lashonda also serves as part of the leadership team for the Working Caregivers member resource group. She is a certified professional project manager, skilled presenter and facilitator and a recent graduate of Leadership Institute of Acadiana's Leadership Lafayette, class XXXIV. To support her community, she currently serves on the Board of Directors for Big Brothers Big Sisters of Acadiana and in various leadership capacities at her local church, Destiny of Faith. With a strong background in sales, creative development, leadership and as a mom, Lashonda highly values the adaptability of agile principles in her personal and professional life. She spends her time serving, reading, writing, and raising her three incredible sons. In addition, Lashonda also shares her life experiences through her lifestyle brand and personal blog, Elle Dean. Lashonda is passionate about helping others live a life they deserve and love whether through inspiration, education, or in service. My philosophy is simple; when you are committed to doing good work, with compassion, honesty, and Faith, you will never lose.
Lashonda tells us about her day-to-day life as a single mom and how tough it is. She also talks about the guilt she felt from the events that led to her becoming a single mom in the first place. Lashonda shares things that she has never spoken about to others about the darkest season of her life.
Join Lashonda and me for this conversation that I know you don’t want to miss!
Connect with Lashonda
Instagram -
https://www.instagram.com/theelledean/
Facebook -
https://www.facebook.com/TheElleDean
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/mwlite/in/lashondadean
Resources and Services
Send your voice memo to conatact@kandiceabateast.com
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 15 Bonus: The Dealbreaker Relationship That led to God and Purpose
Ep. 44 Letting Go of Guilt and Shame and Seeking God Instead with Jessica Hottle
Ep. 52 A Toxic Relationship, Gaslighting, Foolish Behavior, Plus a A Mother’s Love…Pt.1
Ep. 64 6 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Thursday May 04, 2023
Thursday May 04, 2023
Hey Sis!
Have you ever been cheated on? How did that make you feel about yourself? Most women struggle with their confidence and self worth after their significant other cheats on them. Some struggle so much that they stay in the relationship and accept less than they deserve.
I have been cheated on, in a major way, so I know the struggle. I have a good idea of what you’re thinking and the questions you’re asking yourself. That’s why I created this episode. There are some things you need to know, in general, if you’re even going to attempt to start this journey towards rebuilding your self worth.
This was kind of uncomfortable to talk about, but the conversation definitely needed to be had. So turn me up in those earbuds, and let’s get into it!
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 42 Minisode: The First Step to Rebuild Your Self Worth
Ep. 52 A Toxic Relationship, Gaslighting, Foolish Behavior, Plus a AMother’s Love…Pt.1
Ep. 77 New Year, New Me? 7 Steps To Preserve Your Self-Worth While Making Changes
Ep. 85 God Help Me Get Back Together With My Ex! 6 Things To Pray For Instead
Ep. 103 Monday Motivation–I’m Praying For You
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Tuesday May 02, 2023
Tuesday May 02, 2023
Hey Sis!
Are you fresh out of a relationship? I’m talkin just broke up. First, let me say I’m sorry that you’re here. This is the place no one wants to be. I call this the “survival phase.”
During this time you’re literally just trying to make it from one moment to the next without coming completely undone. You’re trying to look like nothing is wrong or maybe just not cry in front of your coworkers. I remember this time all too well.
Although you may not be able to see it right now, better days are ahead of you. You just have to survive this awful season. The initial shock and the initial pain will wear off where you will at least be able to function again.
Until then, keep hanging out here! I have some specific tips for you today on surviving week 1 (or the feeling of week 1). Get ready Sis! You will make it to the other side.
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 2 The Importance of Emotional Healing After A Heartbreak//My Top 5 Reasons
Ep. 16 Is It Okay To Miss My Ex // The 4 Stages of Missing Him
Ep. 26 Minisode: Expose The Pain
Ep. 30 Minisode: It’s Okay Not To Be Okay
Ep. 61 Resting In God With A Broken Heart From Psalms 46:10
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Monday May 01, 2023
Monday May 01, 2023
Hey Sis!
Today’s episode isn’t our typical episode. I feel God leading me to pray for you more. God sees you as you are on this journey to heal your broken heart. So once a month, every 1st Monday, I’m showing up here to pray for you.
If you want me to add you to my prayer list, simply send me a message at https://www.kandiceabateast.com/contact
Know that I’m always thinking of ways to serve you better, you are always in my prayers. I love you, Sis!
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 84 Minisode: Let God Fill Your Voids
Ep. 89 6 Healthy Ways to Release Negative Emotions (IMMEDIATELY)
Ep. 93 Chasing Happiness But Can’t Hold On To It? 7 Ways To Find True and Lasting Joy Instead
Ep. 101 How Can I ever Love Again?
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Thursday Apr 27, 2023
Thursday Apr 27, 2023
Hey Sis!
I’m glad to be back reading another devotion from my book.
Today’s devotion is about getting confirmation about something God already spoke to you. The scripture reference is Joshua 1:18 (NLT).
Sometimes God calls us to do some pretty audacious things. More often than not, His plans for our lives will take us out of our comfort zone. So me, personally, if I’m not sure God spoke, I’m not too quick to act on things. I mean what if I was wrong. I think this is big and scary! And there’s the thought like, “I’m not good enough” and “What if I fail?” Any of these sound familiar. Thankfully, God loves me enough to repeat Himself in a different way. And when He does, it’s time to get to work.
Turn me up in those earbuds, Sis! You’re going to love this one.
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and don’t forget your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code: PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal.
If you’re interested in a girls’ night to celebrate our 1 year Podversary at the end of May, send me a message and let me know. Email me here.
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Apr 25, 2023
Tuesday Apr 25, 2023
Hey Sis!
I know all too well what it’s like to lie in bed with a broken heart and say, “I can’t do this again.” When we put ourselves out there and end up hurt, that's a hard thing to come back from. You might be thinking you’ll never love again.
However, you may also have that lingering desire for relationship, love, and marriage. Both things can be true at the same time. If you find yourself in this place of wondering how in the world can you love again, you’re in the right place.
Join me on today’s episode as I share some tips with you that will help you prepare your heart for all the possibilities that will come your way in the future. Get your notebook and pen, and tune in!
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 13 5 Powerful Steps For Your Faith To Heal Your Heart Now
Ep. 29 2 Secrets That Are Keeping You From Healing Your Broken Heart and The #1 Way to Overcome Them
Ep. 32. Minisode: Why Forgive? Healing
Ep. 73 3 Steps To Create An Action Plan To Heal Your Broken Heart In The New Year
Ep. 95 Heal and Grow Your Confidence To Make History After Heartbreak
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!