GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women, Christian Singles
Do you feel heartbroken over a recent breakup? Did you think he was “the one”, but it turned out to be another failed relationship? Are you feeling like you’ll never find “the one” for you? Do you wish God would just bring the right man along so you can be happy? In this podcast I will share my journey of looking for love in all the wrong places to finally finding the true love I needed and how that led to me getting into the right position to be married. I had a lot of work to do in my single season. When I finally put God first in my life and truly gave Him my heart, I became content as a single woman. Then, and only then was I ready for marriage. I will share all my tips and insight on healing and moving on after painful breakups, growing close to God during heartbreak, and how to get into position to have the deepest desires of your heart (i.e., marriage, children, etc.). If you’re ready to ditch that broken heart for healing and wholeness, you’re in the right place. Hey Sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother of 3. I’m carrying out the call God placed on my life by helping women heal and move forward after breakups. While I love my life now, this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I had a broken heart and was unfulfilled with my life. The cycle of failed relationships began to make me have thoughts like, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not enough?” I desperately wanted to find the right man for me and get married. So I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Then, in 2015, my heart was shattered, and I knew something had to change. I finally realized that if I was ever going to truly heal my heart and be fulfilled, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. Through healing and connection with God, I finally felt whole and complete. I learned the proper way to heal and grow my relationship with God, and I want to help you do the same. Plus I have tips to help you get ready for future relationships, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be complete and lacking nothing. If you are ready to finally heal your heart, stop going from failed relationship to failed relationship, and grow your relationship with God in the midst of it, all while becoming the woman you want to be who is ready when the right man comes along–this is definitely the podcast for you. Sis, kick off those cute shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day and turn me up in those earbuds, we’re about to get into it! Links Connect: contact@kandiceabateast.com IG: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/427484885847810/ Book: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/shop Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose
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Tuesday May 02, 2023
Tuesday May 02, 2023
Hey Sis!
Are you fresh out of a relationship? I’m talkin just broke up. First, let me say I’m sorry that you’re here. This is the place no one wants to be. I call this the “survival phase.”
During this time you’re literally just trying to make it from one moment to the next without coming completely undone. You’re trying to look like nothing is wrong or maybe just not cry in front of your coworkers. I remember this time all too well.
Although you may not be able to see it right now, better days are ahead of you. You just have to survive this awful season. The initial shock and the initial pain will wear off where you will at least be able to function again.
Until then, keep hanging out here! I have some specific tips for you today on surviving week 1 (or the feeling of week 1). Get ready Sis! You will make it to the other side.
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 2 The Importance of Emotional Healing After A Heartbreak//My Top 5 Reasons
Ep. 16 Is It Okay To Miss My Ex // The 4 Stages of Missing Him
Ep. 26 Minisode: Expose The Pain
Ep. 30 Minisode: It’s Okay Not To Be Okay
Ep. 61 Resting In God With A Broken Heart From Psalms 46:10
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Monday May 01, 2023
Monday May 01, 2023
Hey Sis!
Today’s episode isn’t our typical episode. I feel God leading me to pray for you more. God sees you as you are on this journey to heal your broken heart. So once a month, every 1st Monday, I’m showing up here to pray for you.
If you want me to add you to my prayer list, simply send me a message at https://www.kandiceabateast.com/contact
Know that I’m always thinking of ways to serve you better, you are always in my prayers. I love you, Sis!
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 84 Minisode: Let God Fill Your Voids
Ep. 89 6 Healthy Ways to Release Negative Emotions (IMMEDIATELY)
Ep. 93 Chasing Happiness But Can’t Hold On To It? 7 Ways To Find True and Lasting Joy Instead
Ep. 101 How Can I ever Love Again?
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Thursday Apr 27, 2023
Thursday Apr 27, 2023
Hey Sis!
I’m glad to be back reading another devotion from my book.
Today’s devotion is about getting confirmation about something God already spoke to you. The scripture reference is Joshua 1:18 (NLT).
Sometimes God calls us to do some pretty audacious things. More often than not, His plans for our lives will take us out of our comfort zone. So me, personally, if I’m not sure God spoke, I’m not too quick to act on things. I mean what if I was wrong. I think this is big and scary! And there’s the thought like, “I’m not good enough” and “What if I fail?” Any of these sound familiar. Thankfully, God loves me enough to repeat Himself in a different way. And when He does, it’s time to get to work.
Turn me up in those earbuds, Sis! You’re going to love this one.
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and don’t forget your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code: PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal.
If you’re interested in a girls’ night to celebrate our 1 year Podversary at the end of May, send me a message and let me know. Email me here.
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Apr 25, 2023
Tuesday Apr 25, 2023
Hey Sis!
I know all too well what it’s like to lie in bed with a broken heart and say, “I can’t do this again.” When we put ourselves out there and end up hurt, that's a hard thing to come back from. You might be thinking you’ll never love again.
However, you may also have that lingering desire for relationship, love, and marriage. Both things can be true at the same time. If you find yourself in this place of wondering how in the world can you love again, you’re in the right place.
Join me on today’s episode as I share some tips with you that will help you prepare your heart for all the possibilities that will come your way in the future. Get your notebook and pen, and tune in!
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 13 5 Powerful Steps For Your Faith To Heal Your Heart Now
Ep. 29 2 Secrets That Are Keeping You From Healing Your Broken Heart and The #1 Way to Overcome Them
Ep. 32. Minisode: Why Forgive? Healing
Ep. 73 3 Steps To Create An Action Plan To Heal Your Broken Heart In The New Year
Ep. 95 Heal and Grow Your Confidence To Make History After Heartbreak
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Tuesday Apr 18, 2023
Tuesday Apr 18, 2023
Hey Sis!
This is an exciting moment for me! We have reached 100 episodes on the podcast! What a milestone! Thank you so much for listening and showing your support on this journey.
Did you know that I have serious intentions behind every single episode that I publish for you all? I know your needs are great during this season of your life. A broken heart is no joke, and I believe God called me to support you during this time.
Today is all about sharing my top 10 favorite episodes thus far. But not just sharing titles, I’m sharing why they are my favorite, and how they were intended to help you when they were created.
You may have listened to all of these episodes already, but if you haven’t, be ready to catch up on these. And if you have listened to them, you may want to listen again with an open heart and mind, or maybe you can share them with someone else.
Either way, I’m super excited to share these with you. Turn me up and celebrate with me!
Also, as a special thank you for hanging out with me for 100 episodes, I created an ebook that I’m sharing for free–100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup. Check out the link below.
Resources and Services
60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional
Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 6 We Broke Up! Now What? Where Do I Go From Here? 10 Steps To Help You Move On After Heartbreak
Ep. 14 You Are Enough//Take A Me Moment
Ep. 23 Where Is My Boaz//Tips From Ruth On How To Find Your Husband//Fun with Biblical Truths
Ep. 12 Is God Telling Me To Leave MY Relationship//4 Ways God Told Me to Leave 4 Different Relationships
Ep. 9 I need Closure To Move On After a Breakup//Shattering the Myth + 3 Things To Do Instead Of Seeking Closure
Ep. 33 The Ultimate Heartbreak, A Story of Tragedy, Loss, Healing, and Hope with Katina Adams
Ep. 70 Minisode: Holy Ground
Ep. 89 6 Healthy Way to Release Negative Emotions (Immediately)
Ep. 3 3 Keys To Kickstart Your Spiritual Growth
Ep. 95 Heal and Grow Your Confidence to Make History After Heartbreak with Dominique Haughton
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
Tuesday Apr 11, 2023
Tuesday Apr 11, 2023
Hey Sis!
This may be hard to believe, but this breakup really could be the best thing that ever happened for you. It’s not for the cliche’ reason, “so you can find someone better.” No! I mean this could genuinely be the best thing for you in so many ways.
Believe it or not, this breakup has already set some things in motion for your future, but it’s up to you how it all plays out. Will you let this pain take you out or propel you forward?
Use this season of heartbreak and healing as a time for reflection, stillness, and planning. If you play your cards right in this season, you can look up in a year and see yourself as the best version of yourself that you have never seen before.
Turn me up in those earbuds as I share my top reasons heartbreak was the best thing for me!
Sis, is the pain from this breakup just too much for you to handle on your own? Are you feeling like you’ll never make it through this season of your life? You don’t have to struggle through your healing journey. Let me help you! Book your 60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, so you can start making real progress on your healing journey. Remember, you are worth the investment.
I have a special one just for you! Get one of my powerful prayers to help you move on after a broken heart for FREE! Click here, submit your name and email address, and get my powerful prayer delivered right to your inbox!
Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 3 3 Keys To Kickstart Your Spiritual Growth
Ep. 6 We Broke Up! Now What? Where Do I Go From Here? 10 Steps To Help You Move On After Heartbreak
Ep. 41 Have A Broken Heart? Follow THis 6 Step Process To Get Where You Want To Be After A Breakup
Ep. 57 Minisode: Joy Will Return To You
Ep. 61 Resting In God With A Broken Heart
Ep. 93 Chasing Happiness But Can’t Hold On To It? 7 Ways To Find True And Lasting Joy
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
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Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Apr 04, 2023
Tuesday Apr 04, 2023
Hey Sis
This question might make you a little uncomfortable, but have you ever been jealous of another woman? Be honest. I think we have all been at least a little jealous at least once in our lives. I know I dealt with it in my single seasons.
Now let’s be really honest, is jealousy something you’re struggling with in your current season as a single Christian woman. We don’t talk about it enough because there’s a lot of shame associated with this emotion. However, we are exposing and treating it today.
If you find yourself wanting what someone else has or not liking someone because they’re doing better than you, this episode is for you. Don’t be in denial about it anymore. Admit it to yourself and admit it to God.
Now that you have, play today’s episode and take notes. If you implement the tips I give you today, you’ll be able to stomp jealousy out as soon as it rears its ugly head. Let’s do this, Sis!
Sis, is the pain from this breakup just too much for you to handle on your own? Are you feeling like you’ll never make it through this season of your life? You don’t have to struggle through your healing journey. Let me help you! Book your 60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, so you can start making real progress on your healing journey. Remember, you are worth the investment.
I have a special one just for you! Get one of my powerful prayers to help you move on after a broken heart for FREE! Click here, submit your name and email address, and get my powerful prayer delivered right to your inbox!
***Check out these episodes that are related to this one
Ep. 14 You Are Enough//Take A Me Moment
Ep. 71 Minisode: No Comparison
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
Subscribe to My Email List
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Hey Sis!
We’re back with devotional readings like we never left. Let’s pick up in part 6 of the book.
Today’s devotion is about those 2 dreadful words, “What If.” The scripture reference is Exodus 4:13 (NLT).
Life is scary, and it becomes scarier when God calls you. But here’s the thing Sis, God calls all of us at some point time and time in each of our lives. The question is, what will you say or do when He calls you? You can ignore Him or say no when he calls. But if you do, I think you’ll probably have this lingering question of What if? in the back of your mind. Don’t let that be your story.
Get ready to fulfill your purpose and calling in God!
If you enjoyed the content from this minisode, be sure to grab a copy of my book:
Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose from my website www.kandiceabateast.com, and don’t forget your lined journal so you can communicate with God on this journey. Remember to use the promo code: PODCAST10 at any time for a 10% discount off of my book and journal.
Sis, is the pain from this breakup just too much for you to handle on your own? Are you feeling like you’ll never make it through this season of your life? You don’t have to struggle through your healing journey. Let me help you! Book your 60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, so you can start making real progress in your healing journey. Remember, you are worth the investment!
I have a special one just for you! Get one of my powerful prayers to help you move on after a broken heart for FREE! Click here, submit your name and email address, and get my powerful prayer delivered right to your inbox!
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
You can also follow me on Instagram @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Mar 28, 2023
Tuesday Mar 28, 2023
Hey Sis!
Does that breakup have your mind reeling and now you’re struggling to hear from God? Maybe this is an area where you have always struggled? Whether this struggle is new or old you, help is on the way.
Today, Pastor Nickesha is breaking down the 3 main ways to hear God’s voice. And if you don’t know where to start in really recognizing God’s voice, she brings us back to the basics–the foundational level.
Here’s a little more about Pastor Nickesha: She is happily married to Daniel Epps and currently lives in Lafayette, Louisiana. She works as a 5th grade ELA teacher and the 3-5 Content Leader at Willow Charter Academy. She also serves as the Youth Pastor at Destiny of Faith Christian Center. Pastor Kesha loves to encourage, motivate, and inspire others. Her drive is to help others consider something new about themselves to become the person that God has called them to be.
Pastor Nickesha not only breaks down how to hear from God but also how it benefits you on your healing journey. She also shares some tips about things that helped her at a time when she needed healing. This conversation is deep and rich. Get ready to elevate in life. Oh, and yes you will need pen and paper again.
Connect with Pastor Nickesha on Instagram @ladyphree
Related episodes
Ep. 11--Worshiping Through Heartbreak with Jessika Gayden
Ep. 13--5 Powerful Steps for Your Faith To Heal Your Heart Now
Sis, is the pain from this breakup just too much for you to handle on your own? Are you feeling like you’ll never make it through this season of your life? You don’t have to struggle through your healing journey. Let me help you! Book your 60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session with me, so you can start making real progress on your healing journey. Remember, you are worth the investment.
I have a special one just for you! Get one of my powerful prayers to help you move on after a broken heart for FREE! Click here, submit your name and email address, and get my powerful prayer delivered right to your inbox!
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
Tuesday Mar 21, 2023
Tuesday Mar 21, 2023
Hey Sis!
Has your self-worth and confidence taken a blow from that last breakup? Maybe they diminished over time due to one failed relationship after another. Maybe you started with a confidence deficit because of childhood trauma or issues.
Today, we are going all in with our guest Dominique, who is a confidence expert. Dominique went on her own healing journey, and now she’s comfortable showing up as her authentic self.
Here’s a little more about Dominique: She empowers women in leadership to unlock the power that reveal their true identity and exude their natural confidence all while securing the bag! As a Confidence Makeover Coach, Dominique targets Imposter Syndrome by assigning women in leadership a power color. Dominique is also a therapist and has been in the social services field since 2010. It is Dominique’s goal to help women restructure the total individual, which includes the spiritual, mental, emotional and physical aspects of them that blocks them from walking in their purpose.
In this conversation Dominique gets really vulnerable about her experiences on her journey, and she is dropping so many golden nuggets that you don’t want to miss. By now you should have a notebook or journal dedicated to this podcast. Get it out so you can take some notes!
Connect with Dominique:
Facebook: The Chic Therapist
Instagram: thechic_therapist
Tiktok: thechictherapist
Twitter: HyMaintGlamGurl
Clubhouse: chictherapist
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2nd, I love giving gifts on my birthday, and I have a special one just for you! Get one of my powerful prayers to help you move on after a broken heart for FREE! Click here, submit your name and email address, and get my powerful prayer delivered right to your inbox!
Be sure to join my Facebook group to get more information and encouragement.
The Healing Heartbreak Community
Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!
And you can follow me on Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose